Likes Are Cute, But Emails Pay the Bills - A Beginner’s Guide to Email Marketing That Actually Works
- Lisa Michele Carpenter
- Oct 22, 2025
- 2 min read

📨 If You’re Only Posting on Social, You’re Building on Rented Land
Let’s say it louder for the women in the back: You don’t own your Instagram account — but you do own your email list.
And if you’ve been hesitating to get started because:
You don’t know what to say
You feel like “who would even read this?”
Or you’re allergic to tech…
Let’s take a deep breath. We’re going to make email easy.
💡 Why You Need an Email List (Yes, Even Now)
Your email list is:
Your most valuable marketing asset
A direct line to people who want to hear from you
Something you can keep building no matter what Zuck does next
While social media comes and goes, your email list is yours forever — and it’s where the money is.
🛠️ What You Actually Need to Start (It’s Less Than You Think)
A Freebie (Lead Magnet)
Think: checklist, mini-guide, templates, swipe files
Bonus if it saves time or gives a quick win
An Email Tool
Try: HighLevel, MailerLite, Flodesk, or ConvertKit
Choose one that feels intuitive (no “tech tears” allowed)
A Simple Welcome Sequence
Just 3–4 emails to start:
“Here’s your freebie!”
“Here’s a little about me”
“Here’s how I can help you”
“Here’s something to check out / buy / join”
💌 What Should You Say in Your Emails?
✨ Try this simple email formula:
Hook: Start with a story, a truth bomb, or a “me too” moment
Value: Teach one thing, share one tip, or link to a blog post
Invite: Ask a question, share a link, or invite them to reply
You don’t need to be clever. You just need to be clear — and consistent.
✍️ Subject Line Starters (That Work for Women Like Us)
“This changed everything for me…”
“Quick win: Try this today”
“If I were starting over at 50, I’d do this first”
“Real talk: I almost gave up (but didn’t)”
🎯 Start Here If You’re New:
Pick a freebie that helps your ideal client with one specific thing
Set up a simple opt-in page
Write your welcome email (just one for now!)
Send your first newsletter next week
Done is better than perfect.
🧡 Final Thought
You don’t need to be a marketing pro to write great emails. You just need your voice, your value, and a reason to show up.
You’re not “too late” to start a list — but you are too wise to keep putting it off. Let’s grow it together.
📥 Free Resource CTA:
Grab my “50 Proven Email Subject Lines” — and never overthink your next send again.
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